This narcissim article that was forwarded to me from Robyn, thanks to the kindness of Commenter Heidi, just makes me very sad. There is no hope for a successful relationship with a narcissist. Only lowered expectations and as little contact as possible.
When I think over my relationship with my own children, I'm so happy that the pattern is broken. My kids like me. They really really like me. Which is something I can definitely say that I did not feel towards my mother when I was their ages.
Oh sure, they think I'm a dork. But I'm a nice dork who can actually listen to them when they have something to say. Unless they're talking about World of Warcraft. In that case, I shut of my hearing and go all Queen Loophole Narcissist on them. Just like good old mom.
Enough about Queen Loophole Narcissist, let's talk about me.
I have taken my flakiness to a higher level. I took it to work today.
I'd been at work for awhile when Mr. Frame Shop told us he had to leave for an appointment. At that very same time I was headed out the back door to walk across the parking lot to our bank. When I got back to the frame shop, Mr. Frame Shop was still there, looking for his car keys. He'd already looked in the fridge (which is where we tend to find his cellphone when it goes missing) so I said "Oh. I probably put it in my purse" which was sitting under the desk in the office.
Well lo and behold, there were his car keys. I apparently saw some car keys on the desk and in my constantly tidying ways, threw them into my purse.
Help me. I'm losing my mind! I'm putting other people's stuff into my purse! Which should have him checking the petty cash box as it sits a mere 2 feet from where I store my purse.
It's not easy, losing your mind and being responsible for people losing their keys.
I'm such an asshole. My mother isn't a narcissist, my mother is nostradamus. Perhaps she should be referred to from now on as Queen Loophole Omnipotent.
1:09 p.m. - January 11, 2007
Recent entries:
just wondering - June 16, 2012
10 Years of Blogging - October 31, 2010
- - March 15, 2010
For Cosmic - June 29, 2009
Here I Am - April 02, 2009
My profile
Archives
Notes
Diaryland
Random
RSS
others:
stepfordtart
pennyjar
sunstarr
la-the-sage
beyondpanic
katiedoyle
h2odragon
reader1209
dragging-ink
yaketyyak
life-my-way
unclebob
whyme63
ygraine
smedindy
thecrankyone
shear-madnez
poolagirl
rdhdprincess
pattypat
mommylap
katress
marywa
milkmaid
junkmel1
kitchenlite
greenwitch
jenistar2
essaywriter
chaosdaily
cleanersmom
cosmicrayola
dana-elayne
erlenweg6
catniptea
alicewonders
artgnome